Using instinct is knowing your personality type and looking for other types that are close to yours. Or at the very least, looking for types that you know something about whether they are close to your type or not and you want to meet them based on type knowledge first before using any other criteria.
Stop making things harder on yourself when it comes to dating and building relationships.
Check out the following quote:
"Many people dwell on the negative rather than the positive or create excuses for themselves in order to justify why they have not met all of their goals. In some cases, people will find it difficult to accomplish tasks because they are actually making things harder on themselves or are engaging in a form of self-sabotage. In order to stop making things harder for yourself, you have to be prepared to transform the way you approach your life. Learn to manage your time, acknowledge your weaknesses, and develop self-confidence."
Paul Chernyak, LPC
Personality type is an instinctive thing. It can be identified accurately and you can apply it easily in many areas of your life. Dating is one of them, a pretty important one in fact.
Date people you already know something about. The instinctive typing will not change. People can change many things about themselves but we can't change our Personality Type.
So when you are not using type as the main beginning criteria for dating you are using non-instinctive, may change, likely will change criteria for setting up that date. Why make things harder on yourself?
You increase your chances of having better dating experiences, meeting people who you have more in common with and developing more lasting relationships when you begin with personality type.
Typedates.com is being developed to help you do just that. Date based on personality type ala Myers-Briggs like information.
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