So much of dating seems to revolve around "Fear". I think this is why dating can be so difficult especially for older folks, 30s 40s and up. They've been hurt.
I recently researched some of the top reasons that cause dating difficulty. Most of the reasons can be placed under the category of "Fear".
"Being rejected; losing my independence; being lied to; hooking up with a sociopath; never finding my soul mate; being alone if I get it wrong; avoiding divorce; too much baggage".... and the list goes on and on. All related to "Fear" in some way.
So, how can we go about eliminating or radically reducing the "Fear" component involved with dating?
For starters and perhaps more profoundly come to realize that God does NOT give a spirit of fear. If that is true, and it is, then where does fear come from? That is a question for another post but for now, know that a closer relationship with God can drive out all fear.
What does God give related to this conversation? He gives a spirit of love, power, and a sound mind.
Ahh, a sound mind.
You have a solid foundation of personality type that can be used as one good tool for eliminating the fear associated with dating.
When you know your type this is like knowing yourself. You can make decisions based upon what you really like and don't like, what you want, and don't want in a person, in a relationship because you are deciding based upon INSTINCT, not a whim, not a cultural passing fancy, not superficial appearances. You are deciding based upon a KNOWN quantity, your individual nature, your personality type.
Personality type is an INSTINCTIVE preference for certain behaviors. Match the natural behaviors in your type with folks who have the same type or near the same type of behaviors and you are walking on safer ground.
When you know what to expect fear can be reduced. Avoid those types who are more likely to behave in ways unlike your ways, who like more of the things, environments, settings, ideas that you do NOT like based upon your unchanging personality type.
God has given you this ability this personality type. When you know your type you are using wisdom and understanding based upon INSTINCT. You are safer.
My mission has been to help connect people based upon personality type first and foremost.
Typedates.com is an online dating site geared to help people connect based upon their never-changing personality type FIRST before anything else.
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