The INTJ love vision is less romantic and more directed at what life should be. This is not to say the INTJ cannot be romantic, they can and it will take a logical form.
The INTJ will be looking for someone who understands that while the INTJ can be extremely loving and loyal this may not be expressed so much in words but more in deeds.
Loving an INTJ is to understand that "work" to them is not work in the standard sense. It is something they want to "like" or even "love" to do, it reaches the idealistic zone, and they are willing to search to find it. So to love the INTJ is to allow them to search.
To love the INTJ is to understand that while they can be outstanding following systems and procedures when those systems and procedures bore them or they view as no longer their own or serving them in a logical and visionary way the INTJ will rebel against them and find their own systems and procedures.
To love the INTJ is to also understand that they are usually not in tune with their own feelings let alone those of others. This is not to say they can not become attuned it will likely take more work on their part and more understanding on the part of the one loving them. If the partner of the INTJ is a "Feeler" this can become very difficult. Not impossible but difficult.
When it comes to romance and sex the INTJ will naturally "think" about that more than express it with behavior initially. Remember they are logical visionaries and they will envision sex and romance first.
To love the INTJ is to consider the following strengths & weaknesses and be ok with them:
Strengths:
- Good listeners
- Desire to perfect their relationships
- Not threatened by criticism or conflict
- Self-confident
- View commitments and relationships seriously
- Generally capable and intelligent
- Equipped to leave relationships which should be ended easily
Weaknesses:
- Normally not in tune with the feelings of others, indeed at times insensitive
- Tend to respond to conflict with logic & reason rather than emotion & feeling
- Not naturally good at expressing feelings & affections
- Tend to believe they are always correct
- Unwilling or unable to accept blame often
- Always looking to improve everything
- Tend to keep part of themselves withdrawn
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