Understandable. You don't really know what thay like, don't like, value, don't value. You don't really know the environments they like. You don't know their strengths. Don't know their weaknesses.
When we date online or date period there is much we do not know as we go into the dating situation.
What if that could be radically reversed?
What if there was a way that would give you a strong idea, going into the date, before the very first date, of what they prefer on several levels.
What if you knew ahead of time how they speak, how they view the world around them, how they reason, how they prefer to manage their every waking moment, what if?
Wouldn't that kind of pre-knowledge reduce a great amount of the "unknown" about the date?
If you had a pretty good idea of what they value, what they like, what they fear, at least in general, wouldn't that provide a more positive expectation of what a date with them might be like?
Then if the prospect was more negative than positive, why date them to begin with?
Well, this kind of pre-knowledge is possible. I've been telling people about it for over 35 years now. What is it?
It is a knowledge of your instinctive personality type.
When you now your type and even a modest understanding of what your type is about, and you know the personality type of the person you are considering dating, you have enough ammunition, enough pre-knowledge to reduce the "unknown" of dating significantly.
You will never know everything about them, or yourself for that matter, but you will know enough to go into the date if you choose to proceed, with the assurance that there won't be much that will negatively surprise you. You will be dating mostly what you want to date.
I've created a web site, an online dating site based upon personality type which can help you reduce the "unknown" factors in dating.
Registration is free. The site is new so be patient as it grows.
Do yourself a favor when you date. Identify and use as much as possible of what is and can be known about you and then define the solid, never changing attributes you would like in a relationship, then use personality type to help you find those people possessing those attributes. Try typedates.com.
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