Showing posts with label intuition. Show all posts
Showing posts with label intuition. Show all posts

Tuesday, April 14, 2020

I Feel Like I Have Two Types!

Many people feel this way. They feel they are one type at home and another type at work or in some other setting.

The reality is that people are one type. That type is set at birth.

However, we do many things in life and it is safe to say that most of them will put us in environments that are type-unlike our natural type.

You have 8 behaviors or functions that you use:
Extroversion, Introversion, Sensing, Intuition, Thinking, Feeling, Judging and Perceiving.

However, you instinctively prefer only 4 of the 8.

The other 4 or non-preferred behaviors you have and use but they are not as accomplished in a natural and instinctive way.

Most of the time folks will feel more non-type like when they are at work. The work environment demands that more non-preferred behaviors are used in order to get the job done in the best way.

The repeated exercise of non-preferred behaviors is uncomfortable and sometimes absolutely intolerable. Which is one of the reasons folks will change jobs so frequently or burn-out and testify that they hate their work.

At least 70% of all the workers in the world do not like, even hate, what they do for a living. The reason is that they have entered into a work setting that requires them to use their non-preferred behaviors way too much. Why they chose the non-type like work is another subject and one that I was involved with for over 33yrs.

So folks will feel as if they are one personality type at work and a different personality type when not at work. Typically the non-work setting will be at home but may be in any behavioral environment that demands they use their instinctively preferred functions. In other words, the 4 of the 8 behaviors they are imprinted to prefer.

So, with a knowledge of type, it is possible to avoid environments that require too much use of non-preferred behaviors. At the very least with knowledge of type we can prepare for work or any activity that forces us to engage in non-preferred behaviors.











Monday, March 23, 2020

INFJ-Looking for Love

INFJs who make up about 2-3% of the American population are true romantics but will be "behind the scenes" about it.

They are deep thinkers and their sense of "feeling" colored with intuition can make their romantic and love thought almost psychic.

They will care deeply for the ones they love but can be quickly hurt by the same. INFJs do have a tendency to take things way too personally.

Reading, writing, thinking, praying, listening to music are things the INFJ will revel in and may be expressed on a date. If you don't like those things, think twice before you date an INFJ. Well, think twice before you let yourself fall in love with one.

INFJs will enjoy museums, art galleries, libraries, bookstores and the like. These can be not only great places for taking an INFJ on a date but also are good places to meet one as well.

When you first meet an INFJ you will hear "feeling" being spoken. They may not speak first but they will respond kindly to what you say. Just be prepared to hear "feeling" spoken. If you can speak "feeling" you have an advantage in the conversation with the INFJ. If you understand "intuition" you are ahead of the game with them.

INFJs appreciate affection. If you can't or won't give affection do not date an INFJ. If you are pretending in your offers of affection know that in time the truth will come out and INFJs do not respond well to a lack of affection in any environment.

INFJs may be the most passionate of all the 16 types but VERY PRIVATELY so.

If you are INFJ look for the "NF" types first. (intuitive feelers) then the "SF" (sensing feelers) second. The total opposite type is ESTP. In my opinion, proceed there with caution.

But hey, you can date any type you want.

Build your relationships on instinct.